Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social ConnectionBased on groundbreaking research showing that prolonged loneliness can be as harmful to your health as smoking, Loneliness is “one of the most important books about the human condition to appear in a decade” (Daniel Gilbert, author of Stumbling on Happiness). University of Chicago social neuroscientist John T. Cacioppo pioneered research on the startling effects of loneliness: a sense of isolation or social rejection disrupts not only our ability to think and will power but also our immune systems, and can be as damaging as obesity or smoking. On the flip side, social connection can be a powerful therapy. Cacioppo’s sophisticated studies relying on brain imaging, analysis of blood pressure, immune response, stress hormones, behavior, and even gene expression show that human beings are simply far more intertwined and interdependent—physiologically as well as psychologically—than our cultural assumptions have ever allowed us to acknowledge. Loneliness traces the evolution of these tandem forces, showing how, for our primitive ancestors, survival depended not on greater brawn but on greater commitments to each other. Serving as a prompt to repair frayed social bonds, the pain of loneliness engendered a fear response so powerfully disruptive that even now, millions of years later, a persistent sense of rejection or isolation can impair DNA transcription in our immune cells. This disruption also impairs our ability to read social signals and exercise social skills, as well as limits our ability to internally regulate our emotions—all of which can combine to trap us in self-defeating behaviors that reinforce the very isolation and rejection that we dread. Loneliness shows us how to overcome this feedback loop to achieve better health and greater happiness. As individuals and as a society, we have everything to gain, and everything to lose, in how well or how poorly we manage our need for social bonds.
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... social situation that mattered most . We moved from an interest in social support to an interest in perceived social isolation - loneliness - as a model system for studying the role of the social world in human biology and behavior ...
... social isolation . By Katie's internal measure , the connections in her world seemed somehow fragile and distanced . She could not consciously articulate what was bothering her , but as soon as she could , she opted for a dramatic ...
... isolated for it to be a major source of unhappiness in their lives.2 3 This finding becomes even more compelling when we consider that social isolation has an impact on health comparable to the effect of high blood pressure , lack of ...
... isolation is not an unalloyed negative . The sensations associated with loneliness evolved because they contributed to our survival as a species . “ To be isolated from your band , " wrote John Bowlby , the developmental psychologist ...
... social rejection ( isolation ) and reactions to physical pain share the same hardware begins to sug- gest why , once loneliness becomes chronic , you cannot escape it merely by " coming out of your shell , " losing weight , getting a ...
Contents
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Selfish Genes Social Animals | 52 |
The Universal and the Particular | 73 |
CHAPTER | 92 |
From Selfish Genes to Social Beings | 111 |
An Indissociable Organism | 128 |
Conflicted by Nature | 169 |
Conflicts in Nature | 182 |
Finding Meaning in Connection | 199 |
Getting It Right | 221 |
The Power of Social Connection | 247 |
Notes | 271 |
Index | 297 |
Knowing Thyself among Others | 145 |
Other editions - View all
Loneliness: Human Nature And The Need For Social Connection John T Cacioppo,William Patrick Limited preview - 2009 |
Loneliness: Human Nature And The Need For Social Connection John T Cacioppo,William Patrick No preview available - 2009 |
Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection John T. Cacioppo,William Patrick No preview available - 2008 |