Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social ConnectionBased on groundbreaking research showing that prolonged loneliness can be as harmful to your health as smoking, Loneliness is “one of the most important books about the human condition to appear in a decade” (Daniel Gilbert, author of Stumbling on Happiness). University of Chicago social neuroscientist John T. Cacioppo pioneered research on the startling effects of loneliness: a sense of isolation or social rejection disrupts not only our ability to think and will power but also our immune systems, and can be as damaging as obesity or smoking. On the flip side, social connection can be a powerful therapy. Cacioppo’s sophisticated studies relying on brain imaging, analysis of blood pressure, immune response, stress hormones, behavior, and even gene expression show that human beings are simply far more intertwined and interdependent—physiologically as well as psychologically—than our cultural assumptions have ever allowed us to acknowledge. Loneliness traces the evolution of these tandem forces, showing how, for our primitive ancestors, survival depended not on greater brawn but on greater commitments to each other. Serving as a prompt to repair frayed social bonds, the pain of loneliness engendered a fear response so powerfully disruptive that even now, millions of years later, a persistent sense of rejection or isolation can impair DNA transcription in our immune cells. This disruption also impairs our ability to read social signals and exercise social skills, as well as limits our ability to internally regulate our emotions—all of which can combine to trap us in self-defeating behaviors that reinforce the very isolation and rejection that we dread. Loneliness shows us how to overcome this feedback loop to achieve better health and greater happiness. As individuals and as a society, we have everything to gain, and everything to lose, in how well or how poorly we manage our need for social bonds.
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... behavior , and even gene expression show that human beings are simply far more intertwined and interdependent ... behaviors that reinforce the very isolation and rejection that we dread . ( continued on back flap ) ( continued from front ...
... behavior . Doing so changed how we conceived the human mind as well . The dominant metaphor for the scientific study of the human mind during the latter half of the twentieth century has been the computer - a solitary device with ...
... behavior . It was also setting in motion a series of cellular events that might seriously compro- mise her health . While growing up in that tightly knit community , Katie never gave much thought to social connection one way or the ...
... behavior but shows up in measurements of stress hormones , immune function , and cardio- vascular function . Over time , these changes in physiology are com- pounded in ways that may be hastening millions of people to an early grave ...
... behaviors . Keep in mind , too , that feeling the pain of isolation is not an unalloyed negative . The sensations ... behavior — the pain of burning skin tells you to pull your fin- ger away from the frying pan - loneliness developed ...
Contents
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Selfish Genes Social Animals | 52 |
The Universal and the Particular | 73 |
CHAPTER | 92 |
From Selfish Genes to Social Beings | 111 |
An Indissociable Organism | 128 |
Conflicted by Nature | 169 |
Conflicts in Nature | 182 |
Finding Meaning in Connection | 199 |
Getting It Right | 221 |
The Power of Social Connection | 247 |
Notes | 271 |
Index | 297 |
Knowing Thyself among Others | 145 |
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Loneliness: Human Nature And The Need For Social Connection John T Cacioppo,William Patrick Limited preview - 2009 |
Loneliness: Human Nature And The Need For Social Connection John T Cacioppo,William Patrick No preview available - 2009 |
Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection John T. Cacioppo,William Patrick No preview available - 2008 |