How to Get on in the World, Or a Ladder to Practical SuccessThe old saying, "Marry in haste and repent at leisure," will never lose its force. Worse than the man whose selfishness keeps him a bachelor till death, is the young man, who, under an impulse he imagines to be an undying love, marries a girl as poor, weak, and selfish as himself.-from "Chapter VII: As to Marriage"Subtitled A Ladder to Practical Success, this little book is chock full of handy advice for a young man looking to make his way in the world... or at least in the world of 1895, when it was first published. Calhoun's guidance encompasses: .the importance of correct habits.the value of experience.selecting a calling.some of labor's compensations.patience and perseverance.and more.While some of its core counsel is timeless, this quaint work is a charming look back at a society that no longer exists.Also available from Cosimo Classics: Calhoun's Business Hints for Men and Women.American artist and writer ALFRED ROCHEFORT CALHOUN contributed photography, sketches, and articles to publications including Harper's Weekly and the Philadelphia Press. |
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... youth , so will the community which they constitute be more or less humanized and civilized . Thus homes , which are the nurseries of chil- dren who grow up into men and women , will be good or bad according to the power that gov- erus ...
... youth , so will the community which they constitute be more or less humanized and civilized . Thus homes , which are the nurseries of chil- dren who grow up into men and women , will be good or bad according to the power that gov- erus ...
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... all times . The good home is the best of schools , not only in youth but in age . There young and old best learn cheerfulness , patience , self - con- trol and the spirit of service and of duty . 30 How to Get on in the World .
... all times . The good home is the best of schools , not only in youth but in age . There young and old best learn cheerfulness , patience , self - con- trol and the spirit of service and of duty . 30 How to Get on in the World .
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... youth , as did in- cline them to spend much of their time in her company , which was to her great content . " The home is the true school of courtesy , of which woman is always the best practical instructor . " Without woman , " says ...
... youth , as did in- cline them to spend much of their time in her company , which was to her great content . " The home is the true school of courtesy , of which woman is always the best practical instructor . " Without woman , " says ...
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... youth , when the audacity of some unprincipled associate tempted them from the ways of innocence . Through all the years of life , even to old age , the life and character are influenced by association . If this be true in the case of ...
... youth , when the audacity of some unprincipled associate tempted them from the ways of innocence . Through all the years of life , even to old age , the life and character are influenced by association . If this be true in the case of ...
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... youth whose experience of men is larger , and who is fortunate in his companionship . The farmer's son , who finds himself for the first time in a great city- alone and comparatively friendless , appears to himself to have entered a new ...
... youth whose experience of men is larger , and who is fortunate in his companionship . The farmer's son , who finds himself for the first time in a great city- alone and comparatively friendless , appears to himself to have entered a new ...
Contents
As to Public Life | 109 |
The Need of Constant Effort | 118 |
Some of Labors Compensations | 127 |
Patience and Perseverance | 139 |
Success but Seldom Accidental | 157 |
Cultivate Observation and Judgment | 177 |
Singleness of Purpose | 190 |
A Sound Mind in a Sound Body | 228 |
The Value of Experience | 73 |
Selecting a Calling | 84 |
We Must Help Ourselves до | 90 |
Successful Farming | 101 |
Labor Creates the Only True Nobility | 247 |
The Successful Man is SelfMade | 257 |
Unselfishness and Helpfulness | 274 |
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Page 298 - If Time be of all Things the most precious, wasting Time must be, as Poor Richard says, the greatest Prodigality; since, as he elsewhere tells us, Lost Time is never found again; and what we call Time enough, always proves little enough...
Page 68 - Lives of great men all remind us We can make our lives sublime, And, departing, leave behind us Footprints on the sands of time; Footprints, that perhaps another, Sailing o'er life's solemn main, A forlorn and shipwrecked brother, Seeing, shall take heart again.
Page 298 - Industry all easy, as Poor Richard says; and He that riseth late must trot all Day, and shall scarce overtake his Business at Night; while Laziness travels so slowly, that Poverty soon overtakes him...
Page 81 - Stone walls do not a prison make, Nor iron bars a cage; Minds innocent and quiet take That for an hermitage; If I have freedom in my love And in my soul am free, Angels alone, that soar above, Enjoy such liberty.
Page 63 - O Woman ! in our hours of ease Uncertain, coy, and hard to please, And variable as the shade By the light quivering aspen made; When pain and anguish wring the brow, A ministering angel thou!